Girls, give guys a chase. They will treat you better. I promise.

I wish you would goddamn talk when you're angry - especially when I specifically ask you if you are. At that point, there's nothing more I can do.

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I called you so many times tonight to tell you that I loved you but you didn't pick up the phone.

i thought we would be together forever, but i guess that isn't going to be the case. i still can't believe that it's over after almost 3 years..and i hate society and the way it has made being in love with someone of the same gender such a horrible thing. i still love you and always will... and i still hope you change your mind and realize what you're giving up on.

I can't tell if I like my best friend, or if it's only because I'm lonely.

In any case, I can't see it ending well.

I want to scream. Stop using me as an example of how you've failed at relationships.

you mean more to me than you can ever possibly imagine...

I am seriously thinking about dropping out of college to become a chocolatier.

What am I doing wrong? I wake up each morning and put on my makeup. People tell me I look pretty, but why believe them? I've had one boyfriend my entire life and I'm 19 now. What am I doing wrong?
I think I'll go have a cookie.

I haven't felt like a person in years. I feel like an object, and college didn't help any. I just don't want to feel empty anymore. I really am a good guy.

I cheated over the break. I'm sorry; I will never repeat that mistake-- nor tell you about it.

You call her your "penguin"? I tell everyone I'm happy for you but a small part of me is dying on the inside.

UNC is such a lonely place. I don' really have any close friends. Just a few people i see once a month at most. I don't have anyone to confide in. Study with. Go to parties with. It's like everybody is emotionally blocked off. I'd just like to meet some people to hang out with.

There's almost nothing I'd rather do more than to have sex with the boy my best friend is in love with.

and he offered.

Now I just have to figure out if it's worth it to get over this compulsion.

I'm terrified of the upcoming semester.

I felt so numb last night, as if I didn't care. It's the same way I felt right before I was raped. I thought I was doing better, too.

I'm so conflicted! I want my best friend to do well, and I'm doing my best to help and encourage, but at the same time, she is my competition in the real world. I don't know if I should keep encouraging and pushing or if I should just let her set her goals a lot lower than they should be.

When I was kissing you last night, I thought about my ex and my best friend. I'm sorry. You're such a great person and I really do like you.

I think I'm in love with you. And I can't be with you because you're there and I'm here. It's getting harder every day, but I think you feel the same way. Please tell me if you do.