Thursday, April 10, 2008

Because I have chosen to wait to have sex, I’m afraid I won’t find someone or will eventually have to give in at the cost of hurting myself. I hate that I feel so alone with this decision.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

hey, i made the same decision.

it was so easy when i didn't feel alone in it, when i had friends who had made the same decision, but now i'm the only one i know...it just makes me doubt myself so much, all the time.

but more than that, i don't want to compromise just to give in. i feel ya.

Anonymous said...

I worry about this too. You're not alone.

Anonymous said...

thank you for putting into words what i have been feeling so much lately.

Anonymous said...

i feel you on this one too, but i dont worry about me giving in as much as i worry that no one will think its worth waiting for me.

Anonymous said...

I waited till I was in love and not till I was married to have sex. Best decision I've ever made.

Anonymous said...

I am terrified of no one thinking I am worth the wait. And I also don't want to be a "sacrifice" for someone either.

Anonymous said...

I'm waiting as well.

Anonymous said...

I hope I am worth the wait. I don't want to be a disappointment.

Anonymous said...

I'm waiting as well, you definitely aren't alone. It's easy to feel like it when EVERYONE talks about sex around me, but whats funny is I feel so much more valuable for waiting.