Monday, May 19, 2008

My boyfriend is the only guy that's ever given me an orgasm. I've hooked up with plenty of other guys and it's always been unsatisfying, uncomfortable, or even painful. Does this mean he's the one?

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Umm...no. Maybe the other guys just sucked.

Anonymous said...

actually, i mean, it could be more

like maybe you're able to be comfortable in a way that you weren't with the other guys--doesnt necessarily = "the one" but maybe it means you trust him and love him

Anonymous said...

I don't think so either...

Sex is usually better when you're doing it with someone you've had practice with. Probably why the hookups weren't as good.

Anonymous said...

ditto on the first comment

you need to figure out what works for you, regardless of the man

Anonymous said...

I sort of feel the same way. I think that the trust factor is really important, which is why random hookups never really worked for me.