Monday, June 23, 2008

I have lost a ton of weight and accepted the fact that I am gay, but I still look in the mirror and see that fat, unattractive, and closeted person I was. I guess my closet was bigger than I thought. I want a relationship and I want someone to hold and fall asleep with but I don't see myself as good enough for that. How can I learn to like myself?

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Wow, I can really relate to what you're going through. I lost about 50 pounds and came out to my friends, but I still feel obese and unattractive and kind of ashamed of being gay. So I guess I can't answer your question, since I haven't learned how to like myself either. But just know that there are other people who are going through the same thing. And even if we don't always believe it, we deserve love and happiness just like everyone else.