Things that suck about my life:
-Try as I might, and despite being reaffirmed that I am a "Good Guy," I can't get a date.
-Try as I might, I can spend hours on an assignment and still fail it.
-My parents want to micromanage my life to the point where they know my grades before I do, because they check all of my UNC stuff (email, blackboard, etc)
Things about my life that don't suck
-My friends actually care about me, and they know how much I hate myself. Without them, I honestly don't know if I could wake up each day.
6 comments:
Your parents check your UNC email? Seriously, man, that's ridiculous. Change your password right now. Say it's UNC policy. I'm sure there's something in the honor code about one person per account, so you'll be legit.
Change your passwords and don't tell your parents.
Wow, this could have been me writing this last semester. Keep strong!
You seriously need to change your passwords. isn't there a clause you know sign when you come to Carolina that says your parents can't check up on that without your permission? Get it changed. You need some space.
my parents do the same, there are still many things I am not "allowed" to do. I relate to your frustration. .... if your parents pull the, "do what i say or you have to pay for college" deal.... then i suggest you listen to them... and get away with what you can... unless you can manage to pay your tuition
i felt the same way last year, don't worry it gets better, since then i've spent countless nights in beds with guys who don't care about me but their presence was all the attention I thought I needed, changed my major, found I job I love, told my parents that I don't actually know what I'm doing with my life and I like it that way and since I'm now paying for my college career, I love you but deal. and recently a good friend told me I am better than being "that girl" that and we are now in a very loving caring relationship and it is amazing. My parents are pissed, but somewhere there has to be compromise, if you don't find that middle ground everything is going to seem a lot worse than it is. I could have never changed my life around if it weren't for my friends, trust me, it might seem like you have a dozen terrible hurdles in your life; but you'll get by with a little help from your friends.
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